When you think about it, saying the words, "I'm gay" aren't actually physically difficult.
When talking about non-lesbian with a couple of my church friends, they kept on saying, "well you're not gay" and "Haven't you told her that?" I responded, "I told her about my ex-boyfriend." One of my friends, correctly responded, "Well you can have an ex-boyfriend and still be a lesbian."
Argh! I wanted to say it, but the words just couldn't come out. I've been called brave and strong, but after last night, I don't think I have a right to those words.
QBP: "The difference between a hero and a coward is one step sideways. " -Gene Hackman